When Kiara Advani said Sidharth Malhotra has helped her become ‘more chill’: ‘I think post-marriage…’

One of the most dependable stars in Bollywood, Kiara Advani, has seen immense success in her career in the last few years. While the majority of the credit goes to her being a natural on-screen as well as her hard work, she once admitted in an interview that her marriage with actor Sidharth Malhotra has made her even more ambitious. 

“Somehow I think post-marriage, ambition has come into my life. I do feel like there is a platform now and there is an opportunity for me to go beyond what is expected of me. He (Sidharth) has helped to make me more chill. It’s nice to have a partner who is also in this field. Actually, he has nudged me to be like you are capable of much more,” she revealed. 

Advani’s admiration for her husband’s support sparks a key question — how can couples uplift each other to reach their career aspirations? 

According to Anuradha Gupta, founder and CEO, Vows For Eternity, “A strong marriage thrives on an equally strong support system. There should be a shared sense of pride for accomplishments – a collective celebration of those “we did it!” moments.”

We all crave purpose, she says, and a fulfilling career is a significant part of that equation. However, it’s more than just job titles or paychecks, but being each other’s greatest champions. 

In a marriage, supporting each other’s career goals is not just about practicality, but nurturing a strong foundation built on mutual respect and encouragement. “That shared joy in each other’s successes can strengthen the fabric of a marriage, making it more resilient and fulfilling. After all, when you’re on the same team, there’s nothing you can’t conquer together,” Gupta shares. 

A healthy partnership is about sharing the highs and lows. (Source: Freepik)

Strategies for uplifting your partner’s career goals

Gupta lists five effective strategies for uplifting a partner’s career goals without overshadowing or neglecting one’s own aspirations:

Open communication: When both partners feel heard and understood, it creates a space where everyone’s aspirations can flourish side by side.

Vulnerability: A healthy partnership is about sharing the highs and lows, the fears and triumphs, and creating a space where both partners feel safe to be themselves, without judgment or criticism.

Shared goals: Finding common objectives gives your relationship direction and purpose. Identify what you both want to achieve together, and then start working towards that.

Balancing independence: Both partners have their own passions and interests, and this individuality must be kept alive. Pursue these passions independently of each other so nobody’s interests take a back seat.

Celebrating achievements: Celebrate those wins, no matter how small. It reinforces the genuine care and support within the relationship. 

Addressing potential conflicts or insecurities

During conflicts, especially regarding something as personal as one’s career, egos and insecurities often come into play. “Instead of fearing these conflicts, couples should approach them proactively by identifying and discussing boundaries beforehand. Scenario planning can help clarify what takes precedence when conflicts arise, allowing partners to define their priorities and address urgent matters together,” she advises. 

Gupta adds that on a micro level, shared calendars can be extremely effective. Outline your individual and shared goals for the year and analyse them together. This helps identify your common paths and strategies for moving forward as a team.

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